65 ‘CharmingDate.com’ Reviews
The worst of all.
I spend a fair bit of time in Ukraine. This is the worst of all dating sites, it is purely set up to take money. Most of the girls photos are registered on numerous sites, which also then makes it easy enough to find them on vk.com either using a birthday, name, location or a google image. Not one will ever write to you there, which if she was real is exactly what she'd do.
I jumped on the band wagon like a lot other gentlemen. I am 49 and Divorced and was tried of looking in the good old US for someone that is not lazy, fat and just looking for a free ride... well this site did open my eyes.
I started chatting and sending letters with 2 women.. just 2. A quick background of me - Internet Security and investigator. One would send pictures, not from Charm, but real pictures. So, I took one of these and started digging. Found the girl in a few normal places, will not go into details here, but I found her. I started asking her direct questions, from the information I had gathered without giving up my hand. I asked if the name given was really hers. She told me her real name in Ukrainian, which I already knew the answer, but was looking for her to be truthful. I asked about brothers or sisters, she replied with the correct information. I asked about where she lived and got no answer, but I already know the information. I created a few accounts on Ukrainian/Russian social media sites to see, if she would at least look. Quick answer was, no. She would always put me off wanting to chat, letters, phone calls and or have me send pictures. Not one of the latter was ever done.
I pulled the ad from the a few different Ukrainian news paper and found out how much these girls make for each service. A girl can make a lot of money.. wow! One thing they are told is to keep letters short and simple, no details, but just enough to keep the guy interest.. spending money. Chat is always every limited. One last test I did was send a voice message to her and I asked her to reply. She did but I could hear a great deal of talking in the background, once I pulled the message and broke it down.
The other lady is older, around my age and sends very long letters and talked in chat. She willingly gave details about her life and her voice message contained no background noise.
So, about 99% of the girls are milking men for money, but there maybe that 1%, that really wants to get out of the situation they are in.
Best advise would be to look for someone around you age, be picky and not stupid. No young lady is going to go for an old fart, no matter what they say. Do, these women take better care of how they appear, answer would be yes. Their culture is very different and these women like to stay home and take of the house and be your queen. They are not looking for some fat ass guy, they can get that at home. They are not going to run out and get a job, just because you want them too. If you cannot afford this type of life, stay away from these women and just waste money on women wherever you live.
MAKE UP YOUR OWN MIND
I set up a short basic profile here, in it I stated, "so I know your genuine and have read my profile, I want you to confirm to me before you say anything else, were it is I go on skiing Holidays ever year"
I have received over 120 mails, and not one , not one said anything about my skiing.. That is the only thing I wrote about in my profile. Some said" I have read your profile many times, and just had to write to you".
If this were true, they would have mentioned my skiing . Its totally fake, if you reply to girls here, your wasting your time, and more importantly your money, If you ignore this little experiment of mine, your a fool,
I have corresponded with different ladies on this site and then stopped for various reasons. later I have seen the same profiles of the ladies with a different age. ladies have had 5 to 10 years removed from their profiles. I have taken this up with the site and have never had an answer.
I have also written and chatted with ladies and then requested and paid for their direct contact information. After a couple of direct contact emails the correspondence stops. When I then see the ladies in chat then I fined that they have blocked me from chatting.
100% Scam with no accountability
Charmingdate was the first and last dating scam I will ever fall for. Attached is a letter I wrote the company - I waited days and received no reply.
I do not understand how this website can be truly effective in connecting people if the transfer of personal contact information is prohibited. Can you please explain this to me ? I have read "success story" testimonials, but am hoping that you can give me a more realistic perspective on the potential outcomes of your service.
Finally, I wonder if the translators also censor information that may be deemed against company policy ? I understand this is a paid service where everyone must get their cut, but I am wondering what's really in it for the patron besides some online companionship ? Is that it ?
I want to use your service and am willing to pay for new credits, but cannot subscribe to a resource that is not transparent and does not provide the tools to facilitate a real world outcome . . . My intentions are honest -my heritage is half Russian and I would like to connect with someone in the Ukraine or Russia for a long term relationship.
I hope to hear from you soon.
Don't fall for it . . . the free trial is what got me started & the people on the other end of the computer are master manipulators. It doesn't matter what you're into - literature, philosophy or the ridiculous dream that some babe in Russia is going to fall madly in love with you after 3 emails. Don't waste your time or money -if you want a stranger to validate you post a wanted add on Backpage . . .
Okay let me spill the beans on this website, the girls are paid to communicate with men, they get a percentage of all communications, letters and chat. Im 63 years old and while on the site I get endless chat request from beautiful girls in there 20's, a chat cost about 3 dollars for 5 minutes, these girls are making all kinds of money, they can have as many chats going at one time as they want, and letters is another scam. They will even provide a computer for them to use at home, its not that hard to understand what is going on. Very young Beautiful women interested in an old man...what a scam
I was conversing with a “woman” who was unmarried, childless, and new great English. I paid a private investigator firm to find this woman – only $60. Best money ever spent. Turns out that this “woman” was a combination of a model and a translator. I happened upon the model who had lent her image. Everything unraveld because the model was actually divorced, had a child and knew no English. Further, the model had linked to her social media site to this about the “Charming” site.
Here is a translation of the sites description as it hawks itself to women to participate in the scam:
How to find yourself. How to entertain yourself. How to live well and rest elegantly. As afford what was previously available,,,,, girls, women, ladies!! Marriage agency for permanent work need models, translators!
This group was created to find cute wonderful motivated individuals I want to make you an offer. At dating site “Charming” I need is you, Your charisma and appearance as well which is important to make doing and just have fun! And earn 300 ye a month!!
I suggest three ways to participate;
1. Offered a job as a translator in our dating with foreign gentlemen. This requires just a desire to register on the site and earn money to correspond with gentlemen as well …. The ability to go to the meeting. Receive gifts! Shopping for the girl and her happy eyes with gratitude the best-man)
2.Vtoroy way it does not work for the agency. Just register and go to the meeting with the men. Receive with money for hours spent in his company. Receive presents brought from abroad and eat for the best restaurants of the city!! And have fun in the company of a charming girl translator))
3.I third most simple way. Generally not participate in any activities. Simply register and a nice bonus in the form of gift bears, good spirits and t DA Passive income is also a percentage of the interpreter’s work with your profile.
Incidentally Girls forgot to add the most important thing. Photoshoot is free to all participants in a very cozy atmosphere. Coffee and fun pastime all guarantee.!!
love will come soon if you treat it seriously
Being a 53 year old man, dreams of finding a soul mate for the rest of my life at this age seemed pretty much a fantasy, until a friend of mine told me of the website and I decided to give it a shot!
I must say girls on Charmingdate.com are really hot and I was a little confused to chat with the young girls. I want to find a woman really suitable for me. She must be kind and soft and I don’t mind her past.Just one words,I want to find a woman who really cares me. Then I choose the woman who has the same interest and experience with me .I think we fall in love with each other in the first sights and now after one years communication we will met in the Chinese New Years Festival.
So guys, keep trying and you will find your love here soon,too!
find some girl to chat here
Recently, I was able to meet a nice Russian girl on the site and have been communicating with her for about half a year. I planned to meet each other in the next year. And we have committed to each other in the talking. There may be some bad apples as there are with any site, but if you take the time and make the effort...you can do it to. I couldn't be happier.